We’re here to help you move beyond dating apps and create genuine, meaningful connections with like-minded singles in your community

Why We’re Doing it

Dating apps have become the dominant way people meet potential partners, but they come with significant drawbacks:

  • Disillusionment with Apps: In a 2019 survey, only 28% of users said they felt hopeful while using dating apps, compared to 45% who felt frustrated. While apps present endless options, they can lead to choice overload—making it harder for users to form meaningful connections.

  • Ghosting and Burnout: 50% of online daters report being ghosted, and a 2022 survey showed that 80% of app users felt burned out after a year of use. Instead of building connections, many people experience more disappointment, exhaustion, and anxiety.

  • Mental Health Impact: A 2020 study linked frequent dating app use to higher levels of anxiety and depression. With hashtags like #ihatedatingapps appearing over 1 million times on TikTok, it’s clear people experience dating app fatigue and feel a deep dissatisfaction.

  • Loneliness Epidemic: Loneliness has been declared a public health epidemic, with nearly 60% of adults reporting feeling lonely. Ironically, dating apps designed to connect people are often deepening this sense of isolation, as interactions lack the depth of real-world connections.

Not only are people struggling to find partners through dating apps, but the dating apps are worsening mental health. All this in a time when loneliness has been officially declared a public health epidemic. We created Resonance to make a difference in our community by bringing people together in ways that feel fun, easy and authentic.

Resonance:

the core of our mission

Resonance is more than just a concept; it signifies a deep, meaningful connection that goes beyond surface-level interactions. Just as resonance in physics amplifies vibrations between objects, our goal at Resonance is to create matches where individuals elevate each other’s energy, forming a connection that resonates on a higher level than they could achieve alone.

We invest time in understanding you beyond the superficial attributes captured by dating apps. Through a comprehensive assessment, we explore your passions, goals, and the qualities you value most in a partner. This personalized approach allows us to identify matches that go beyond appearances or shared hobbies, focusing instead on a deeper resonance between two people.

Who We Are

We are experienced psychotherapists dedicated to helping individuals explore their needs, desires, and goals. Our expertise enables us to ask insightful questions, listen attentively, and truly understand what you’re seeking in a partner. We won’t prescribe how you should think, date, or what you should look for. Instead, we help you uncover your authentic self and connect with people who genuinely resonate with who you are.

As Millennials who have navigated the challenges of dating apps ourselves, we bring a personal perspective to our work. With over 15 years of combined experience living in the Cambridge-Somerville area, we have a deep understanding of the local community and the connections people are seeking. In short, we get it!

Melissa Crawford

Melissa is deeply committed to addressing social isolation and loneliness, believing that authentic connections and a strong sense of belonging are essential for mental health and well-being. As a psychotherapist with advanced training in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), mindfulness-based therapies, and Narrative Therapy, she utilizes her expertise to help individuals build meaningful relationships and create a vibrant, supportive community centered around genuine connections.

Eve Mugar

Whether in her past work as an actor, or her current work as a trauma-informed and mindfulness-based psychotherapist, Eve has always been passionate about the art of connection and the transformative power of authentic relationships. She brings her creativity and her expertise as an individual and couple’s psychotherapist to her work as a matchmaker and host for Resonance Lab events!